7. Make Real-Time Relationships
This digital age has a way of seducing people. It has convinced tons of people that their online interactions are comparable to real-life. Some people text each other about everything. When you give that hot guy your number at the bar, he doesn’t call you. Instead, he sends you a message on WhatsApp.
Although there may be a few emojis scattered around the message, it doesn’t replace sitting across the table from someone and having a conversation. Many people don’t meet others organically or converse with them naturally anymore. Instead of judging them by their actions, you may judge by how long their last message was or whether they liked your new post on Instagram. Unfortunately, this is an unacceptable way to forge and strengthen bonds.
Humans are physical beings who need physical interaction. Neurologically we bond through real-life, skin on skin contact. A relationship with this component is the only kind that a strong woman will partake in. A text in the morning is sweet and a good night phone call is heart-warming, but it isn’t the same as a hug or a kiss or even holding someone’s hand. You need to see, hear and feel the people you are with.
Alpha women refuse to have a relationship that only exists in the virtual world. To them, a five-minute conversation face-to-face holds more value than a thousand text threads.