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50 Things People Must Abandon To Become High Achievers

ShannonDecember 6, 2018
Instead of waiting for something to happen, go after your dreams. Credit: Pixabay

14. Waiting For Circumstances to Change

Some of the most common examples of waiting for circumstances to change are thinking that you need to wait to achieve your goals when your kids grow up, when you move out of your current living situation, get a new office space, and the list goes on. Sometimes, these obstacles legitimately get in the way, but most of the time, it’s just an excuse. If your circumstances are holding you back, figure out a way to work around them.

If you are a selfish person, it will probably come back to bite you. Credit: Pixabay

13. Being Selfish

If you only think about yourself and the things you want, no one will want to work with you. There is always some form of give and take, whether it’s with clients, partners, or co-workers. Always remember to think about the needs of others sometimes, instead of having tunnel-vision.

If you don’t share your ideas, no one will ever know your potential. Credit: Pexels

12. Hiding Your Ideas

A lot of people make the mistake of coveting their good ideas, because they are afraid that someone else will steal them. In fact, the smarter you are, the more likely you are to keep those ideas quiet. Remember that an idea is just that- a concept in your brain that hasn’t brought to life yet. And if you have a lot of good ideas, but you are not vocalizing them at meetings, no one will ever know your true talent.

For example, Leonardo Da Vinci was a genius, but he was so afraid that someone else would steal his ideas, he would write his notes backwards in a mirror. He also wrote over 15,000 pages, but he never published them, because he was afraid they weren’t perfect. He died feeling that he wasn’t good enough to publish a book, but the rest of the world has passionately disagreed for centuries, because he is considered one of the greatest minds of all time.

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11. Getting a Big Head

It is important to stay humble in your journey to success. Just because you get a promotion or land a huge client, try to hold back from bragging too much. It’s great to have confidence, but if you feel too self-important, it can rub people the wrong way.

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10. Anxiety and Excessive Worrying

Anxiety can seriously hold you back from doing what is necessary to become a high achiever. If you are always worried about the things that can go wrong, it can feel crippling. Try to remind yourself that too much worrying will only hold you back, and if you think that you might have clinical anxiety, don’t be afraid to get help.

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9. All Work and No Play

If you are working all the time and forget to still enjoy your hobbies or hang out with friends, it becomes too easy to lose your identity. Remember to take breaks and enjoy life every once and awhile.

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8. Self-Doubt

When you have never done something before, it is natural to have some self-doubt. Your friends and family may also doubt your ability to achieve your goals, as well. It is very normal for people to feel that way, and no one is 100% confident, especially when they are going into a new situation. Try to be kind to yourself, and give yourself a chance to actually try instead of doubting that you can succeed.

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7. Skipping Breakfast

No matter how busy you might be, you need to eat breakfast. It really is the most important meal of the day. You are more likely to have the energy and right state of mind to be as productive as possible.

“Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering.” -Yoda. Credit: Pixabay

6. Focusing on the Negative

If you tend to be a Debbie Downer who only focuses on the bad things, it’s going to be really hard for you to move forward both personally and professionally. If it’s really serious, this may be a sign of depression or an anger management issue. But sometimes, focusing on the negative can be chocked up to privilege and ungratefulness. Try to take a step back and see all of the good in your life and your career. Once you feel happier, it’s easier to move on and make good decisions.

Most of the time, wisdom and experience trumps perfectionism. Credit: Pixabay

5. Perfectionism

There is an old saying that “perfection is the thief of progress”, and that’s very true. If you are getting ready to launch a business, or if you are trying to prove that you deserve a raise, you may be working on something for a very long time. There may never be a moment when something is “perfect”, and you just have to move forward, anyway.

Don’t forget that spending time with family is just as important as work. Credit: Pexels

4. Forgetting to Have a Work-Life Balance

Focusing too much on work can sometimes damage your personal relationships. Remember that friends, family, and loved ones are equally, if not more important than your work. They make life worth living for. So try your best to carve out time for the people you love.

If you care too much about money, you might lose sight of the most important things in life. Credit: Pexels

3. Obsessing Over Money

Making more money is usually at least one of the motivating factors in achieving your dreams. We need money to survive, so it’s understandable why you might think it’s important…Because it is. But if you obsess over numbers instead of looking at the big picture, you can get yourself into trouble.

Don’t let haters dictate how to feel about yourself. Credit: Casey Neistat on YouTube

2. Letting Haters Get You Down

Casey Neistat has yet another amazing quote, but this time, it has to do with haters. “People who say it can’t be done should not interrupt those who are doing it.” Basically, if you are even trying to achieve your goals, you are already accomplishing more than the naysayers. More often that not, haters are jealous of you, so don’t let it get you down.

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1. Forgetting to Read About the Competition

Sometimes, we are so focused in our own little bubble that we forget to check in on the competition. Try to keep up-to-date on what everyone else is doing in your industry, so that you know where you compare, and where there is room for improvement.

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