11. Work at Your Relationship
For most of us, there comes a time when we want to settle down with “the one.” For most people, this happens while they are in their 20s. To be in a lifelong relationship is probably one of the greatest moves to make in your 20s, but remember, nothing worthwhile is easy.
Somehow, Hollywood has painted a rosy picture of what it takes to be in a so-called forever relationship. Truth be told, it is hard work and can easily get stale. On the flipside, if you work hard at your relationship with your significant other, you will never be lonely. You will never face a challenge alone and you will always have someone you can share your joy with.
This lifelong relationship is not something you happen to stumble upon. It doesn’t just happen. Some people say there is no such a person as “the one.” There is a wise saying, “There is no perfect person for anyone, but everyone has someone that they can love perfectly.”
People will always disappoint you, especially the ones who are closest to you. You need to remember you will also do the disappointing sometimes. Be open to forgiveness and be willing to stick your pride in your pocket. Remember, you aren’t in your relationship just for yourself.